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U is for Underwear

U is for Underwear

The A to Z of Christian Dating  U is for Underwear Successful dating is all about coming across confidently. It’s hard to approach people if you are feeling unconfident. Also, you are less likely to be approached by someone if you are looking like a bag of nerves...

T is for thoughts

T is for thoughts

The A to Z of Christian Dating  T is for Thoughts Pretty much like everything in life, how you think affects so much else in your life. And it’s definitely true in dating which is why T is for thoughts. It’s because of the chain reaction that thinking sets off. Pretty...

S is for Seasons

S is for Seasons

The A to Z of Christian Dating  S is for Seasons If you’ve been searching for a relationship and begin to date someone you really like, there’s a tendency to want to press the fast forward button and accelerate your commitment to the relationship. And pressure to do...

R is for Rules

R is for Rules

The A to Z of Christian Dating  R is for Rules Now we have reached R in our A to Z of Christian Dating rules. R stands for Rules – not the rules of dating (as if there are any) but one feature of dating that I teach many of the clients I coach. It’s called The 3 date...

Q is for Quiet

Q is for Quiet

The A to Z of Christian Dating Q is for Quiet This article is about various aspects of being quiet. It’s rare that I talk to anyone these days who doesn’t have a busy life. So many of us seem to have lives that are totally full – and we rush from one thing to another....

P is for Prayer

P is for Prayer

The A to Z of Christian Dating  P is for prayer Prayer is a topic that is the foundation of all our dating advice. The Bible tells us to Pray without ceasing (I Thess 5:17) and we should approach our search for a Christian partner like anything else we bring to God....

O is for Openness

O is for Openness

The A – Z of Dating O is for Openness This month’s topic is Openness – and we are again focusing on openness in Christian Dating which also incorporates openness in relationships, although there is a distinct difference between the two. Consider first how open you are...

N is for No!

N is for No!

The A – Z of Christian Dating   N is for No - The Art of saying No and using the No’s you receive to your benefit The dating skill we’re focusing on in this letter – the letter N - stands for the skill of saying No and accepting a No you receive in the right way. This...

M is for Manners

M is for Manners

M is for Manners  “Manners makyth man” – I’m sure you’ve all heard this maxim attributed to William of Wykeham, a fourteenth-century bishop of Winchester. Today this expression broadly means that your mannerisms and characteristics make you who you are; that is to say...

The A-Z of Christian dating – L is for Learning

The A-Z of Christian dating – L is for Learning

The A to Z of Christian Dating - L is for Learning   For some reason the majority of people who are actively seeking to meet someone new – i.e. who are ‘dating’ seem to do very little personal development! I make that assessment based on having run a dating agency...

K is for Knowledge

K is for Knowledge

The A to Z of Christian Dating --------------------------------------------------------------- K is for Knowledge   There are more single people in our society today than ever before so many people think dating is easier than ever before. We look around us and see...

J is for Judging

J is for Judging

J is for Judging - The A to Z of Christian Dating Whenever we meet someone for the first time, we make a judgement about them. It’s impossible not to do this. It’s part of what makes us human. Research on how long it takes for this judgement to be made varies from 2 –...

The A-Z of Christian Dating – I is for….

The A-Z of Christian Dating – I is for….

The A to Z of Christian Dating Less of I – More of U.  More than any other time in history, we live in a world that is dominated by ‘I’ being at the centre of my own universe. We are more conscious of our rights and expect them to be met. Perhaps as a result, we are a...

The A – Z of Christian Dating – H

The A – Z of Christian Dating – H

The A – Z of Christian Dating - H is for Hope in Christian Dating   If you are just starting out in your dating journey then chances are you are filled with hope.  This article is aimed more towards people who have been dating for a while, who perhaps are wondering if...

The A – Z of Dating – F

The A – Z of Dating – F

The A to Z of Christian Dating – F is for …… Finding a Christian Partner Over the many years of running friends1st I have heard hundreds of people question whether they should even consider joining a dating agency because surely, as a Christian, God will bring someone...

The A – Z of Dating – E

The A – Z of Dating – E

The A to Z of Christian Dating --------------------------------------------------------------- E is for EMOTIONS Dating – for anyone who has done some – is generally a highly emotive subject.  Well, if not a subject, then certainly an experience. Talk to anyone about...

The A – Z Of christian Dating – D

The A – Z Of christian Dating – D

The A to Z of Christian Dating   D IS FOR DUMP Ah we could write so much on the word ‘Dump’. Dumping an unsuitable boyfriend or girlfriend immediately comes to mind (which many, myself included, find or have found to be hard to do) but as Christians I hope we would...

The A-Z of Christian Dating – C

The A-Z of Christian Dating – C

The A to Z of Christian DatingC is for CHARACTER When you are searching for a soul mate, THE most important thing you should be looking for is CHARACTER.But strangely character never seems to come high up on people’s lists when you ask them what their ideal partner is...

The A-Z of Christian Dating – B

The A-Z of Christian Dating – B

The A to Z of Christian Dating - B is for Beauty The second letter of the alphabet B which stands for Beauty in our A-Z of Christian Dating. Now I am sure men reading this will be thinking “Yes’! Beauty is a very important criterion for me – a woman must be beautiful...

The A-Z of Christian Dating – A

The A-Z of Christian Dating – A

The A to Z of Christian Dating - A is for AttitudeYour ATTITUDE will affect your success at dating. Like so many parts of life, your attitude towards it will affect not only your experience of dating, but also how you get on and ultimately the results you get.We all...