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A Personalised Dating Service
for Christian Men Looking for Love…

Meet a Like-Minded Christian
Woman and Find the Meaningful
Relationship You Were Created For

Meet a Like-Minded Christian
Woman and Find the
Meaningful Relationship
You Were Created For

Say goodbye to the pain of online dating, and be connected with a like-minded woman with the same Christian values as you. With our personalised service and unparalleled support, you can make a genuine connection with a woman who shares your beliefs, and is looking for someone to live her life with too.

1000’s

of Christians Connected
Across The UK

100’s

of Married
Members

23+

Years of
Experience

Founded by

An Award Winning
Dating Coach

Millions

of Member
Conversations

1000’s

of Christians Connected
Across The UK

23+

Years of
Experience

100’s

of Married
Members

Founded by

An Award Winning
Dating Coach

Discover if we have Christian members
living close to you!

Are You Looking to Enjoy and Share
Your Life With Someone Special?

Are You Looking to
Enjoy and Share
Your Life With
Someone Special?

As a Christian man with active faith, you know God has good plans for you. Whether or not you’ve been married before, you know being on your own is not best for you. You’re ready to find the right partner… someone you can love and enjoy life with.

As a Christian man with active faith, you know God has good plans for you. Whether or not you’ve been married before, you know being on your own is not best for you. You’re ready to find the right partner… someone you can love and enjoy life with.

You’re searching for a Christian woman who…

You’re searching for a
Christian woman who…

  • Shares some of your interests so you can build a genuine friendship together
  • Is in a similar stage of life and looking for the same things as you
  • Shares the same Christian values as you
  • Trusts the Bible is the way to truth and abundant life, and recognises the value of Christian marriage
  • Is open to date quite possibly with the intention of marriage in the future

Real Testimonies from Men in Love

Real Testimonies from
Men in Love

But Meeting Your Other Half Rarely Happens
by Chance… and at Times, It Can Feel Impossible!

But Meeting Your Other Half Rarely Happens by Chance… and at Times, It Can Feel Impossible!

Have you experienced ANY of these challenges with your dating journey so far?

Have you experienced ANY of these challenges with your dating journey so far?

  • Do you struggle to meet women at your church who you have chemistry with?
    And it feels as if your only options are your friend’s ex partners, or women that members of your family introduce you to.
  • Do your friends invite you to social occasions as the token single man?
    And you feel like no one truly understands what you’re looking for in a soul mate and wife, or why Christian values are important to you.
  • Does flirting, starting conversations, and going on dates feel unnatural to you?
    And you wish you had some extra guidance from a real person (who is an experienced dating expert) to know what to say and how to act in order to leave a good first impression.
  • Have you tried (and failed) to meet your partner through countless so-called Christian dating apps, websites, and events?
    And you just want to be put in touch with genuine Christian women who are serious about settling down and doing life together.
  • Are you tired of trawling through 1000s of profiles on dating apps that only offer like and swipe or a superficial connection?
    And it’s frustrating not knowing if the people you’re matching with are as serious as you are, or if they’re just dallying with your affections.
  • Are you on the look-out for someone you’re attracted to every time you attend a Sunday service, Mass, Bible study or a church social?
    And you’re worried that time is passing by too quickly, and you don’t want to spend the second half of your life alone.
  • Are you fed up of constantly going out on your own, putting on a brave face and making out you are fine as you are?
    And you just wish you were in the company of a woman who loves and understands you for who you are.
If you answered ‘YES’ to any of the questions above, or if you’re just ready to find the
Christian woman of your dreams, friendsfirst’s unique dating service can help.

We stand by the truth that as a Christian man, you don’t have to settle for less than a great
relationship that is Christ centered. Nor do you need to spend your life on your own.

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At friendsfirst, We’re on a
Mission to Make Meeting
Like-Minded Christians Simple...

At friendsfirst, We’re on a Mission to Make Meeting Like-Minded Christians Simple...

Using a Safe, Personalised and Reassuringly Traditional Approach You Can Trust

Using a Safe, Personalised and Reassuringly Traditional Approach You Can Trust

This is dating, but not as you know it. Say goodbye to dating websites and open-to-anyone apps. Rather, our hands-on service and supportive team of dating experts will connect you with Christian women without you having to rely on swipes and likes.

Our team has 23+ years of experience helping Christians form lifelong partnerships with their soulmates. We will be there to support you throughout your journey, and provide you with powerful resources, helpful coaching and expert advice, so you can find your partner for life sooner.

Find a Christian Woman That Ticks All the Boxes...
With a Dating Service That Does the Same

Receive unparalleled support as you navigate your dating journey, and find your life
partner. You’ll always have someone to turn to, whether you need advice on…

Receive unparalleled support as you navigate your dating journey, and find your life partner. You’ll always have someone to turn to, whether you need advice on…

  • Setting up your profile with an authentic description and great pictures to represent the unique you
  • Discerning which men could be a good match for you,and who to reach out to for a chat
  • Getting prepared as you go on dates and interact with new people
  • Juggling more than one conversation at once with integrity and thought

...or something else entirely!

Our team of dating experts will be on-call whenever you need them to help you meet your soulmate.

Our team of dating experts will be
on-call whenever you need them to
help you meet your soulmate.

How It Works?

Our proven process makes meeting your future partner simple, stress-free,
and is designed to be a genuinely great experience…

Step One

Book an obligation-free discovery call with our team to discuss your hopes and dreams for the future, and map out a clear pathway forward for you.

Step Two

Partner with our team to build a profile that captures your personality perfectly, complete with a stunning professional photo shoot.

Step Three

Receive exclusive resources that will equip you with powerful dating tools from our team's wealth of experience, and set you up for success on your next (and hopefully last!) first date.

Step Four

Sit back and leave the matching up to us as we source and share profiles of Christian women within your specified age criteria looking for a serious relationship.

Step Five

Connect with anyone who stands out for you, and organise to meet face to face knowing they have been vetted and screened by the friendsfirst team.

Step Six

Tap into expert advice to help you navigate your dates, and keep you accountable to pursue the women you could have a strong connection with.

How It Works?

Our proven process makes meeting your future partner simple, stress-free, and is designed to be a genuinely great experience…

Step One

Book an obligation-free discovery call with our team to discuss your hopes and dreams for the future, and map out a clear pathway forward for you

Step Two

Partner with our team to build a profile that captures your personality perfectly, complete with a stunning professional photo shoot.

Step Three

Receive exclusive resources that will equip you with powerful dating tools from our team’s wealth of experience, and set you up for success on your next (and hopefully last!) first date.

Step Four

Sit back and leave the matching up to us as we source and share profiles of Christian women within your specified age criteria looking for a serious relationship.

Step Five

Connect with anyone who stands out for you, and organise to meet face to face knowing they have been vetted and screened by the friendsfirst team.

Step Six

Tap into expert advice to help you navigate your dates, and keep you accountable to pursue the women you could have a strong connection with.

Our Smart Matching
Philosophy Is What Makes
Our Members So Successful

Our Smart Matching Philosophy Is What Makes Our Members So Successful

When it comes to pairing you with your soulmate, we believe in giving you as much choice as possible. Our matching philosophy doesn’t follow the same guidelines as a typical filter might, or what your natural criteria for a woman may exclude. We’ll ensure you never miss out on an eligible partner who may be suitable for you.

You’ll be connected with a wide range of people that you could form a true connection with. Our in-depth, personalised profiles enable you to learn about your dates on a deeper level - from their passions, to their testimony, to their goals in life and faith.

After 23+ years of experience bringing people together, we’ve found that sometimes the most unlikely attractions form the best relationships! Find love from a place of discernment, keeping an open mind, and know that your potential partner is doing the same with you too.

See for Yourself theTestimonies From
Other Young Men Like You…

See for Yourself the
Testimonies From Other
Young Men Like You…

We’re the UK’s Largest Offline Christian Singles Community…

We’re the UK’s Largest Offline
Christian Singles Community…

So What Sets usApart From the Rest?

We Prioritise Commitment

We Prioritise Commitment

We’re 100% committed to helping you find love, and have created a community that fosters the same level of commitment. You won’t find ‘here today, gone tomorrow’ members on our books – just real, genuine Christians serious about finding their life partner now.

We’re Exclusively for Christians

We’re Exclusively for Christians

Run by Christians for Christians, we put in the effort to only accept genuine, active believers as members. You can feel confident knowing you’ll meet someone with the same Christian values and beliefs as you. We vet all our members to ensure they have the right intentions just like you.

We Keep Our Members Accountable

We Keep Our Members Accountable

Is there something holding you back from sending (or replying to) that first message, whatever the reason? We’ll give you a friendly push. Have you started a connection with someone, only to find they’ve gone MIA? We’ll reach out and get to the bottom of it. Our hands-on approach goes beyond the initial match to keep all our members accountable every step of the way.

We Provide You With Helpful Resources

We Provide You With Helpful Resources

Our end game is always to help you meet your future soulmate! That’s why we go beyond introductions, and provide you with our world-class resources, education and coaching to help you succeed. As a member, you’ll also receive a 1-on-1 coaching call with our dating expert, whatever your starting point with us may be.
And most of all, we offer hands-on support that is unlike any other Christian dating service you’ll find.
Whether you need a quick answer to a simple question, help overcoming a problem, advice on navigating
a conversation, or some encouragement in your dating life…
And most of all, we offer hands-on support that is unlike any other Christian dating service you’ll find. Whether you need a quick answer to a simple question, help overcoming a problem, advice on navigating a conversation, or some encouragement in your dating life…
Enjoy peace of mind knowing an experienced and caring
expert is always just a phone call away.

Enjoy peace of mind knowing an
experienced and caring
expert is always just a phone call away.

Meet Authentic Christians Who Are Always Who They Say They Are

Our personalised service allows us to vet every member within our
friendsfirst community to ensure they are genuine, truthful and
trustworthy. Say goodbye to the ups and downs of online dating with:

Our personalised service allows us to vet every member within our friendsfirst community to ensure they are genuine, truthful and trustworthy. Say goodbye to the ups and downs of online dating with:

  • NO bad intentions.
    Know from the start that every person you connect with is a
    genuine Christian, and serious about finding a genuine relationship.
  • NO wasted time or distractions.
    Stay focused on your faith, and leave the heavy-lifting of
    connecting you with a potential partner up to us.
  • NO misleading photos.
    All members receive a professional photoshoot, so their
    profile pictures are bang up to date.
  • NO wasted conversations.
    Feel confident pursuing someone you’re interested in, knowing
    they’ve been screened for authenticity by our team.
  • NO bad intentions.
    Know from the start that every
    person you connect with is a genuine
    Christian, and serious about finding a
    genuine relationship.
  • NO wasted time or distractions.
    Stay focused on your faith, and leave
    the heavy-lifting of connecting you with
    a potential partner up to us.
  • NO misleading photos.
    All members receive a professional
    photoshoot, so their profile pictures
    are bang up to date.
  • NO wasted conversations.
    Feel confident pursuing someone you’re
    interested in, knowing they’ve been
    screened for authenticity by our team.

Flexible Membership Options to Help You Meet
Your Soulmate Without the Guesswork

Flexible Membership
Options
to Help You
Meet Your Soulmate
Without the Guesswork

Silver

  • Handcrafted profile with 2 photos included.
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you quarterly.
  • Dedicated 15-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support.
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups.
  • Resources, books, and helpful emails tailored to your relationship stage right now.
  • Access to view other members' video profiles.
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine.

Gold

  • Handcrafted profile with to 4 photos included.
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you bi-monthly.
  • Dedicated 30-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support.
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups.
  • Resources, books, and helpful emails tailored to your relationship stage right now.
  • Access to view other members' video profiles, and add your own.
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine.

PLUS

  • Personalised critiques and advice on your profile, pictures and correspondence with other members.
  • Personalised friendsfirst email address for secure, incoming messages.
  • Enhanced profile creation.
  • A 6 month review and revamp of your profile.
  • Access to our powerful ‘Finding Someone Special Toolkit’ resource.
  • Dedicated page featuring you in our Cloudnine membership magazine.
  • Face-to-face membership set-up and coaching meeting.
  • Access to our ‘Open to God’ Prayer Resource.

Platinum

  • Handcrafted profile with 6 photos included.
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you bi-monthly.
  • Dedicated 60-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support.
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups.
  • Resources, books, and helpful emails tailored to your relationship stage right now.
  • Access to view other members' video profiles, and add your own.
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine.

PLUS

  • Personalised critiques and advice on your profile, pictures and correspondence with other members.
  • Personalised friendsfirst email address for secure, incoming messages.
  • Enhanced profile creation.
  • A 6 month review and revamp of your profile.
  • Access to our powerful ‘Finding Someone Special Toolkit’ resource.
  • Dedicated page featuring you in our Cloudnine membership magazine.
  • Face-to-face membership set-up and coaching meeting.
  • Access to our ‘Open to God’ Prayer Resource.

£49/mth*

*12 month commitment

£94/mth*

*12 month commitment

£227/mth*

*12 month commitment

Click here to view more detail about each membership option

Looking for a Greater Level of
Customised Dating Support?

Looking for a Greater
Level of Customised
Dating Support?

Get in touch with our team to discuss whether our DIAMOND Membership is right for you! Receive access
to all Platinum features, and experience a service that is 100% tailored to your exact requirements -
whether you need individualised matchmaking, more regular coaching, national advertising on your behalf
or any other such dating services.

Get in touch with our team to discuss whether our DIAMOND Membership is right for you! Receive access to all Platinum features, and experience a service that is 100% tailored to your exact requirements - whether you need individualised matchmaking, more regular coaching, national advertising on your behalf or any other such dating services.

* Prices upon request (from £5000)

Flexible Membership Options to Help You Meet
Your Soulmate Without the Guesswork

Flexible Membership
Options
to Help You
Meet Your Soulmate
Without the Guesswork

Silver

  • Handcrafted profile with 2 photos included.
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you quarterly.
  • Dedicated 15-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support.
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups.
  • Resources, books, and helpful emails tailored to your relationship stage right now.
  • Access to view other members' video profiles.
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine.

£49/mth*

*12 month commitment

Gold

  • Handcrafted profile with to 4 photos included.
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you bi-monthly.
  • Dedicated 30-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support.
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups.
  • Resources, books, and helpful emails tailored to your relationship stage right now.
  • Access to view other members' video profiles, and add your own.
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine.

PLUS

  • Personalised critiques and advice on your profile, pictures and correspondence with other members.
  • Personalised friendsfirst email address for secure, incoming messages.
  • Enhanced profile creation.
  • A 6 month review and revamp of your profile.
  • Access to our powerful ‘Finding Someone Special Toolkit’ resource.

£94/mth*

*12 month commitment

Platinum

  • Handcrafted profile with 6 photos included.
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you monthly.
  • Dedicated 60-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support.
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups.
  • Resources, books, and helpful emails tailored to your relationship stage right now.
  • Access to view other members' video profiles, and add your own.
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine.

PLUS

  • Personalised critiques and advice on your profile, pictures and correspondence with other members.
  • Personalised friendsfirst email address for secure, incoming messages.
  • Enhanced profile creation.
  • A 6 month review and revamp of your profile.
  • Access to our powerful ‘Finding Someone Special Toolkit’ resource.
  • Dedicated page featuring you in our Cloudnine membership magazine.
  • Face-to-face membership set-up and coaching meeting.
  • Access to our ‘Open to God’ Prayer Resource.

£227/mth*

*12 month commitment

Click here to view more detail about each membership option

Looking for a Greater Level of
Customised Dating Support?

Looking for a Greater
Level of Customised
Dating Support?

Get in touch with our team to discuss whether our DIAMOND Membership is right for you! Receive access
to all Platinum features, and experience a service that is 100% tailored to your exact requirements -
whether you need individualised matchmaking, more regular coaching, national advertising on your behalf
or any other such dating services.

Get in touch with our team to discuss whether our DIAMOND Membership is right for you! Receive access to all Platinum features, and experience a service that is 100% tailored to your exact requirements - whether you need individualised matchmaking, more regular coaching, national advertising on your behalf or any other such dating services.

* Prices upon request (from £5000)

Discover if we have Christian members
living close to you!

It's Time to Begin the Next
Chapter of Your Life...

It's Time to Begin
the Next Chapter of
Your Life...

At friendsfirst, we believe that God’s kingdom is strengthened when like-minded Christians are brought
together to enjoy an abundant life together and share their faith journey. If you’re ready to find someone who
shares your values, your Christian faith, and loves you for who you are, then get in touch with our team today.
Meet your soulmate, fall in love, and live the life you were created for sooner.

At friendsfirst, we believe that God’s kingdom is strengthened when like-minded Christians are brought together to enjoy an abundant life together and share their faith journey. If you’re ready to find someone who shares your values, your Christian faith, and loves you for who you are, then get in touch with our team today. Meet your soulmate, fall in love, and live the life you were created for sooner.