We’d love to WELCOME you to friends1st!
You’re probably aware that our NORMAL membership is for a minimum of one year.
So many of our members have met their soulmate because of this requirement!
We’ve only ever wanted committed members – i.e people who are commited to the process of finding their soulmate, and people who realize that it doesn’t always happen immediately and can take time.
HOWEVER…
We recognise that some people just don’t have the funds ….
Or simply can’t commit for whatever reason…
Or just want to dip their toe in the water….
If that’s you then….
I have a very special OFFER for you.
Here’s our OFFER for you…
This is a new membership we’re offering for a limited trial period.
Let me explain more.
It’s more expensive (per month) than our normal memberships because you’re benefitting from a month by month membership.
Here’s what you’ll get with this exclusive membership:
- a set of profiles every month* (this won’t be everyone on our books – but a selection each and every month – and it will always be people whose details you’ve not received before)
*as soon as we’ve received your profile, pictures and identification, and then at the beginning of every month. - your own profile written up by us based on the information you give us in your application/profile form
- 2 photographs on your profile
- our really informative helpful Welcome pack – designed to make you be successful at meeting other members – sent to you by email
- access to all our telephone support (both reactive and proactive)
- access to our bi – weekly coaching videos and bi-weekly top tips emails
- an invitation to book a 15 minute dating coaching call with our dating experts
- priority access to any holidays or events we’re running (you’ll hear about them before people that are no longer members)
- the choice of receiving other members profiles by post or through our amazing members only app
- access to our app – even after your membership has ended so you can always contact people whose profiles we’ve sent you
- our Cloudnine magazine – with the choice to receive it by post or electronically
- the option to purchase any of our other resouces.
Here’s what Gary said who met Esther through us
“I joined Friends first looking for a special lady, best friend and life partner, hopefully leading to marriage after a successful courtship. I was very fortunate (quicker than expected) to start talking to someone special who was committed to finding future husband, called Esther within the first few weeks. We met after talking by text and phone for about 3-4 weeks and exchanged photos of each other. We are now together all the time after we found we really got on very well together and we are engaged to be married. We are planning our life and future together now. We really care for each other and Friendsfirst was the way we found one another. We would never easily have met in separate nearby towns without Friendsfirst. The new app at the time had just started and was a good way to start chatting. Then we moved to other social media as things developed more seriously. Thanks so much Friends 1st for the friendship and support.”
Note from Katharine Gray – Founder and Director
DON’T GET FOOLED BY THE COMMON MISCONCEPTION
Dating is NOT just a numbers game.
Numbers are important but there are other factors that are far more important.
Here are just a few factors that are critical for dating success (which ALL of our successful couples have displayed):
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- Seeking for CHARACTER first.
- Seeing DEEPER – not judging people instantaneously.
- Developing and enhancing relevant SKILLS.
- Perservering – even when it’s tough.
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These are the things we hope to instil in our members and when you get this i.e. the ‘penny drops’, then that’s when you will find your soulmate.
So this offer is for you if:
- you’re still committed to finding your soulmate
- you aren’t just interested in numbers because you recognise that dating is more complex than that (after all if numbers were all it took, everyone on the mass sites like match.com would be married by now – because there’s seemingly no limit to choice on sites like that is there?)
- you want the confidence of knowing our members are all verified, genuine Christians
- you know the value of having a membership team you can speak to for advice, guidance, and support if and when you need it (and even if you think you don’t need it, you acknowledge that if we’ve helped 100s of other people to successfully find their soulmate, maybe just one of our nuggets might help you!)
Here’s what Nina said who met Steve in November and married on 14th July
“I wanted to invest in myself, my future and find someone to spend the rest of my life with. I wanted an agency that was supportive and where other members were committed and genuine. So I joined friends1st and decided to take all the advice they offered. That included contacting Steve which I might not have done without their encouragement. The rest is history and we are thrilled to be married. It certainly worked for us.”
Now please Don’t take this opportunity if you’re thinking:
“I’ll give it a months trial”.
Remember the importance of having the right skills, not judging people too quickly, discovering character and above all else persevering.
None of that happens in one month. (OK it does for a tiny tiny percentage of people but not most!)
Yes you can join us for just one month…. And Yes you may meet Mr or Miss Perfect in your first set of profiles from us.
But it’s unlikely!
No this isn’t about a quick peek of who is on our books – because remember that behaviour is what superficial people display and does NOT help them find their soul mate. (You’ve done that on others sites and it didn’t work did it?).
This isn’t about numbers (though I’m confident you won’t lack those).
It’s about finding that person that is right for you,
that you can and will develop a wonderful relationship with,
whether that takes just one month or longer.
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Perhaps you’re thinking:-
“It didn’t work last time i tried this sort of thing….”
Then truthfully answer this question:
Did you put 100% of effort and commitment into the process – were you really proactive or 100% selective?
You see when we ask most people about this, we often hear:
“I wanted other people to contact me so I didn’t make much effort to contact others”
or
“I just didn’t think anyone looked my type.”
And that’s the problem.
Trust us, so many of our happily married members would still be single now, still searching on dating sites and apps if they’d acted this way with this thinking. But they are now happily married. Dating for them is a thing of the past because they’ve found their soulmate.
Just to be clear….
If you join us on this membership you’ll be paying £65 a month. You’ll get:
- a set of profiles every month (this won’t be everyone on our books – but a selection each and every month – and it will always be people whose details you’ve not received before)
- your own profile written up by us based on the information you give us in your application/profile form
- 2 photographs on your profile
- our really informative helpful Welcome pack – designed to make you be successful at meeting other members – sent to you by email
- access to all our telephone support (both reactive and proactive)
- access to our bi – weekly coaching videos and bi-weekly top tips emails
- an invitation to book a 15 minute dating coaching call with our dating experts
- priority access to any holidays or events we’re running (you’ll hear about them before people that are no longer members)
- the choice of receiving other members profiles by post or through our amazing members only app
- access to our app – even after your membership has ended so you can always contact people whose profiles we’ve sent you
- our Cloudnine magazine – with the choice to receive it by post or electronically
- the option to purchase any of our other resouces.
We look forward to welcoming you to friends1st and helping you find your soulmate successfully.
By joining us on this membership you are starting a new monthly rolling contract with us for our membership services. You can cancel this contract at any time by giving us 30 days notice. Your membership (and payments) will continue until you give us (30 days) notice to end your contract.